Maureen Dowd’s column “An Ideal Husband” last saturday was the most emailed story from nytimes.com. Two days later its still number 4. This is because the advice of the 79 year old priest and counseling veteran, Pat Connor. His “Whom not to Marry” talk breaks down well and makes sense. Seven things you should know before you fall in love with someone.
It plays well for men as well as women. A seven point breakdown after the jump for those who prefer bullet points. (more…)
John vanEpp and family graciously opened up to their suite to show their guide for teaching teens about relationships. Gathered around the table was a group of especially interested people. Glancing at the nametags its hard to miss that they are from… Iceland?
We cornered Olaf Gunnarsson to hear about what the most geothermally powered nation on earth thinks about smartmarriages.
Olaf, the co-founder for OB Consulting, is a bubbling geyser of facts and figures. He has good reason to be excited: In the coming years the national government will be asking all expecting couples in Iceland will be taking a course to help them adjust to the new addition to the family. (more…)
As far as Marriage Education is concerned, SmartMarriages is the primary national conference for marriage education. After reading research papers and reviewing books for two or three years, Anna and I got to what the people who are making and using the new materials are doing.
What did we find? Although marriage education is still not widely known, people are dedicated to this idea and are moving to make it available everywhere families might be found. The conference is full of therapists, churches and your local state and federal government. They may not be getting real rich on this, but but they are often the folks who have to pick up the pieces or open up the coffers when our families don’t work out.
What we found was a marketplace of books classes, curricula, workbooks, videos, therapies. Often federally funded and well thought out using well known and new ideas, they can meet a wide variety of circumstances, tastes and needs.
What’s next? Look out; states like California, countries like Iceland and Canada are getting in to the act and in a few years we’ll have a strong idea about what works and how well.